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FRIENDS OF ELLIS PRESENTS

FoE NIGHTCLUB

Spokane nightlife with a little more freedom.

A private 21+ Lifestyle nightclub experience built around music, dancing, connection, exploration, and the FoE community. Come dressed to go out. Stay because you don't want the night to end.
Meet & Greet 7–9 PM   •   Club Night 9 PM–1 AM
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🔒 Exact event locations are private and are provided to registered attendees after ticket purchase.
NOT JUST A PARTY. A NIGHT BUILT FOR FoE.

We transform a private event space into our version of a nightclub, including a 1,500 sq. ft. dance floor, dedicated Meet & Greet space, professional DJ and lighting, social areas, and private adult spaces.

This isn't a bar that happens to welcome swingers. The entire night is built around the FoE community.

DANCE

Professional DJ, full lighting production, a real dance floor, and music built around the room.

CONNECT

Meet couples and single women from across the Inland Northwest without trying to guess who's Lifestyle.

EXPLORE

Adult spaces give you room to flirt, watch, play, or explore when the mood and connection are right.

CHILL

Not every moment needs to be loud. Step away from the dance floor, talk, relax, and reconnect before jumping back in.

TWO EXPERIENCES. YOUR NIGHT.
Meet & Greet and Club Night happen on the same evening, but they are separate events. Attend one or make a night of both.
7–9 PM

MEET & GREET

Start easy. Grab a drink, introduce yourself, meet other Lifestyle people, and put faces to profiles.

This is the lower-key part of the evening and a great first FoE event if you're curious but aren't ready to jump into Club Night.

No play expected. No pressure to stay.

9 PM–1 AM

FoE NIGHTCLUB

Then the room changes.

The lights drop, the music comes up, and the evening becomes the FoE Nightclub: dancing, drinks, flirting, socializing, and adult spaces for those who want to explore.

You do not have to attend the Meet & Greet to attend Club Night.

WHAT DOES CLUB NIGHT ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE?
There isn't one correct way to spend the night. That's kind of the point.
THE DANCE FLOOR This is the heartbeat of the night. Dance, flirt, get ridiculous with your friends, or just enjoy the show.
THE SOCIAL SIDE Grab a drink. Find somewhere to talk. Meet someone you've seen online. Reconnect with people you haven't seen since the last event.
THE ADULT SIDE When available, designated adult spaces offer room for consensual play, exploration, watching, and a different kind of connection.
THE QUIET SIDE Need a break? Take one. A good night doesn't require four straight hours on the dance floor—or four straight hours doing anything else.
You can come to FoE Nightclub and never play with anyone.
Seriously.

Dance with your partner. Make friends. Flirt. Watch. Explore. Don't explore. Have a drink. Spend half the night talking to somebody in a corner. Go home together.

Being in the Lifestyle doesn't mean sex is owed, expected, or required.

Your night belongs to you.
YOUR FIRST CLUB NIGHT?
Being nervous is normal. Here's the part most people discover: once you're through the door, it's mostly just people having a really good night.
01

SHOW UP

Check your ticket information for the private venue details, arrive during the event you've purchased, and let us get you oriented.

02

FIND YOUR PEOPLE

Say hello. Dance. Grab a drink. Recognize somebody from the FoE website? Introduce yourself.

03

LET THE NIGHT HAPPEN

Don't arrive with a checklist of what has to happen. Follow the connections, conversations, and energy that actually feel right.

DRESS LIKE YOU'RE GOING OUT.
Sexy is welcome. Confidence is better. Theme nights may have their own suggestions, but you don't need a costume to belong in the room.

THE VIBE

Think date night, nightclub, sexy casual, cocktail attire, or whatever makes you feel damn good walking through the door.

THEMES

Some Club Nights have themes. Participate as much or as little as you want. Check the individual event page for that night's details.

ADULT SPACES

If you think you may use an adult space, plan accordingly and follow any event-specific hygiene, attire, and play-space guidelines.

MAKE A NIGHT OF IT.
Club Night doesn't have to mean showing up at nine and driving home at one.

DRINKS

Bar service may be available during the evening. Specific offerings are listed with each event.

FOOD

Food options may be available onsite or nearby. Check the event listing for the night's setup.

VIP

Select events may include upgraded experiences, private spaces, or VIP options.

STAY OVER

Overnight packages may be available for select events, so the end of Club Night doesn't have to mean the end of your night.

Amenities, VIP options, adult spaces, food service, bar service, and overnight accommodations may vary by event. Always check the individual event listing before purchasing.
PRIVATE FOR A REASON.
Your privacy matters to us—and so does the privacy of our venues, partners, and other members.

WHERE IS IT?

FoE events are held at private venues in the Spokane area. Exact locations and addresses are not published publicly.

HOW DO I GET THE ADDRESS?

Purchase your ticket. Registered attendees receive the event information needed to find the venue.

PHOTOS & PRIVACY

Never photograph, record, tag, out, or identify another attendee without their permission. What happens at FoE should remain theirs to share.

SEXY DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING GOES.
Flirting is encouraged. Entitlement isn't. Ask before touching, respect boundaries, and remember that consent can change at any time.
Yes should feel like yes.
No is enough. Maybe isn't yes. Watching isn't permission to join. Being dressed sexy isn't an invitation. Being in an adult space doesn't erase boundaries.

Look out for yourself, your partner, and the people sharing the night with you.
WHO CAN ATTEND?
Friends of Ellis welcomes couples and single women. We do not currently offer memberships for single men. Sponsored Male attendance may be available at select events. All in-person FoE events are 21+.
Ticket types and attendance requirements can vary, so always check the individual event listing before purchasing.
YOUR NEXT NIGHT OUT COULD BE A LOT MORE INTERESTING.
Dance. Meet someone. Explore something. Or just have a hell of a good night.

You don't need to know exactly how the night will end. You just need to decide whether you're coming.

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